{"id":7053,"date":"2023-01-10T05:29:57","date_gmt":"2023-01-10T05:29:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/?p=7053"},"modified":"2023-01-10T05:30:01","modified_gmt":"2023-01-10T05:30:01","slug":"the-great-debate-on-kamasutra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/publishing\/the-great-debate-on-kamasutra\/","title":{"rendered":"The Great Debate about Kamasutra"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kamasutra, an ancient guide to erotic lovemaking or rather to a sexual code of conduct. One could tell that it is an all in all Encyclopedia about how to woo and attract the opposite gender, how to win over the lover, and the electric dynamics between two people. In a nutshell, it\u2019s a book educating man how to make a woman happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The book Kamasutra, written centuries back is educating man on how sensitive it is to fulfill woman\u2019s needs. But on the contrary, we, people of the so-called, modern era are embarrassed to talk about sex, let alone erotic sex and pleasure. Talk about modernization. Sure, humans have evolved but not our thoughts. Even now there are many who, associate Kamasutra with porn movie names, cracking jokes, and whatnot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But is that all? Does the book talk only about sex positions and pleasure?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No, definitely not. What most people are referring to is coition and sex postures, which barely cover a few chapters in the entire book. Whereas there is the rest, which is more or less absurd and talks about unethical and immoral practices against women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No woman would be able to read those chapters and feel unbothered. In fact, it would be a miracle if they don\u2019t tear the book down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, there are two contradicting views. This brings us to the great debate about Kamasutra, is it about pleasuring women or oppressing them?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Unknown Hidden in History<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/a-symbol-of-love-khajuraho-temples.jpg\" alt=\"Khajuraho temple\n\" class=\"wp-image-7055\" width=\"551\" height=\"394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/a-symbol-of-love-khajuraho-temples.jpg 420w, https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/a-symbol-of-love-khajuraho-temples-300x214.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 551px) 100vw, 551px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.insightvacations.com\/blog\/kama-sutra-in-stone-the-erotic-temples-of-khajuraho\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Khajuraho Temple <\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>There are chapters in Kamasutra where women are regarded as \u201cobjects\u201d, or mere slaves, or \u201cdhasi\u2019s\u201d whose whole responsibility is either to be a good wife and take care of children and do her duties or just be a play toy for men. In fact, there are chapters that explain how to have sex with a woman before marriage, how to seduce another man\u2019s wife, and that preaches woman about her duties as a prostitute. It goes to an extreme where it tells men of higher caste shouldn\u2019t even touch the women from lower caste as it would make them dirty. How obscene could it get?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How can a man forcefully having sex with a woman to just marry her any different from rape? It\u2019s definietly safe to say that the book is not exactly \u201crape free\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kamasutra, Written by Men for Men<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/httpswww.kobo_.comusenebookkama-sutra-illustrated-edition-640x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Kamasutra book\n\" class=\"wp-image-7056\" width=\"399\" height=\"638\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/httpswww.kobo_.comusenebookkama-sutra-illustrated-edition-640x1024.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/httpswww.kobo_.comusenebookkama-sutra-illustrated-edition-188x300.jpg 188w, https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/httpswww.kobo_.comusenebookkama-sutra-illustrated-edition-768x1229.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/httpswww.kobo_.comusenebookkama-sutra-illustrated-edition-960x1536.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/httpswww.kobo_.comusenebookkama-sutra-illustrated-edition.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"http:\/\/httpswww.kobo.comusenebookkama-sutra-illustrated-edition\">Kamasutra Book<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Maybe our current society is a result of our ancestors reading such books. Where else would they have gotten the idea that women are inferior to them and have so and so duties to fulfill? And men having so and so looks and status is considered desirable while others are not. Someone should have sown the seeds, right? For sure people have read this book at some point to have imbibed such values in our society.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everything it addresses is in favor of men. It doesn\u2019t say anything about woman\u2019s sexual age, or how women should pursue pleasure, it rather advocates that men can betray, take multiple wives, and even commit adultery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How could a book that has neglected every act of \u201c<em>dharma<\/em>\u201d and over-glorified \u201c<em>Kama<\/em>\u201d and encouraged one to indulge in pleasure whenever he deems fit without a reason and woman\u2019s consent, categorized women based on social and caste hierarchy and exaggerated violet sex, be the same book to talk about homosexual people and their relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The text itself is <a href=\"https:\/\/feminisminindia.com\/2020\/07\/01\/feminist-decoding-of-kamasutra-caste-and-patriarchy\/#:~:text=In%20Kamasutra%2C%20there%20is%20no,the%20use%20of%20excessive%20violence.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">contradicting<\/a> its own points. It speaks about the code of sexual conduct while defying the same with its limitations. Thus, we could say that the book is not exactly for women as it has an over-the-top, and fair share of negatives with little to no good spread across the text. It\u2019s all about a human\u2019s perspective in the end as we can\u2019t ignore the patriarchal view just because it doesn\u2019t obsess with Kama for procreation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One more heads up, the sculptures of Kamasutra can be found on a&nbsp;temple&nbsp;in&nbsp;<em>Khajuraho<\/em>, India. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To know more about sex, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theblogchatter.com\/BeStorified\/trends\/indian-instagram-accounts-to-follow-to-learn-more-about-sex\/\">here<\/a> are some awesome Instagram influencers you could follow.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Kamasutra, an ancient guide to erotic lovemaking or rather to a sexual code of conduct. 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