Breathe In. Breathe Out. Breathe In. Breathe Out, Poonam. This is how you say to yourself probably 100 times a day if you are a mom, dad, or caregiver of a toddler. Because if you lose self-control, your toddler will lose his and multiply it by 100 times. My life revolves around Baby V and I constantly find a million ways to keep him entertained and busy because toddlers can focus only for 5 minutes and if an activity keeps us busy for more than that, then its a hit.