“Mummy! Why do you have to be so nice all the time? Why can’t you be like X’s mom and have a meanie expression on your face? “Mummy, why can’t we show-off too?” These are some questions my daughter asked over the last few years. She basically wanted us to throw some attitude. You know, like having our noses up in the air vibe. “Well, that’s not me!” has remained my standard answer. Before I explain my perspective, here’s the backdrop. This incident happened when my daughter was around nine years old. “Mummy, Y is spreading lies about me behind…