What does raising kids imply? Providing a roof over the kids, food on the table and an education that can empower them to become independent in the future. This definition of raising kids was fine and even perfect until the late 2000s. All 90s kids would agree that this is the way we were raised and we turned out great, I’d say kickass. But after having turned into parents, this same methodology doesn’t seem to work. Was the plan at fault? No, but the times have changed now.